This week has
not been easy to digest for any of us in the LGBT+QIA community or for any
women who values prochoice. I've voiced my opinion and met with opposition and have had
friends who have been punched or insulted by those who wish to take their
rights away. I feel like the world has gone completely mad, and yet for there
to be this much animosity, I realize this underbelly of racism and hatred was
always there. That alone is a terribly sad realization.
According to the
Washington Post, millennials, regardless of religion, race, or ethnicity,
believe contraception, inclusive of Plan B, should be accessible and
affordable. Also 7% identify as something other than heterosexual. –The
Washington Post.com, March 27, 2015. My friend, a middle school teacher, cites
her students prefer to be labeled as fluid. These are the voters of the future
and they give me hope during this period where our rights appear to be
threatened. Whatever happens in the next four years, we will meet it with stern
opposition. No person, regardless of race, gender, or sexual preference, should
be seen as less than.
Ahimsa is a
Sanskrit term, which translates as non-violence. It can be expecting too much
of yourself, gossiping about others, or acting out of fear. The Gaia website
offers this thought, “Make a decision to intentionally respect and even love
the limitations you and your body have. Accept then release the negative
thoughts about yourself or others.” There is no doubt I completely loathe the
man our country has elected. Releasing negative thoughts about the state of our
country seems contrary to what my gut says.
The truth is, I
can’t change what happened. I voted and did my civic duty, though it lacked the
result I desired. I can’t change him. He is a rich, privileged, white man, who
seems to value opinions of other rich, privileged, white men, and who has an
agenda that does not align with my beliefs. The only things I can change are my
thoughts. I can become proactive, offer others support, sign petitions,
protest, and fight for equality and the environment. I will forgive myself if
the battle gets too hard at times and I need a break because I know it will
leave me stronger to fight later. I invite you all to do the same. Be kind to
yourself. Love is stronger than hate,
and let’s stay united.
Now for
something completely different…and much needed LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!
So many good
books coming out this holiday season promoting LOVE! Visit http://www.nickijmarkus.com for a
list of authors, including Nicki, who have some holiday cheer to spread. We
could all use a little love right about now.